KISAH NYATA YANG MENGIRIS HATI!!! {{ " Papa, Tangan ITA KENAPA?? ITA Janji gk Nakal Lagi " }

KODE IKLAN ADSENSE TENGAH ARTIKEL (336X280)

SEMBOYAN HIDUP - Untuk beberapa orangtua yang anaknya kreatif, janganlah lagi dipukul ya.. Tolong baca kisah nyata yang menyentuh hati ini, narasi mengenai seseorang anak kecil bernama Ita yang memohon pada papanya untuk kembalikan tangannya.

Sebagai orang tua kita patut menghalangi perbuatan pasangan untuk memukul sang buah hati.

Terutama pada anak-anak yang masihlah kecil dan tidak tahu apa-apa. Mengajar serta memberi pembelajaran lewat cara memukul bukanlah cara terbaik.

Inilah kisah nyata itu :

Sepasang suami isteri seperti pasangan lain di kota-kota besar meninggalkan anak-anak untuk diasuh pembantu tempat tinggal saat mereka bekerja. Anak tunggal pasangan ini, wanita berumur tiga 1/2 tahun. Sendirian dirumah, dia kerap dibiarkan pembantunya yang sibuk bekerja.

Dia bermain di luar rumah. Dia bermain ayunan, berayun-ayun di atas ayunan yang dibeli papanya, maupun menuai bunga matahari, bunga kertas dan lain-lain di halaman tempat tinggalnya.

Satu hari dia lihat sebatang paku karat. Dia juga mencoret semen tempat mobil ayahnya diparkirkan namun karena lantainya terbuat dari marmer, coretan tidak kelihatan. Dicobanya pada mobil baru ayahnya. Ya… lantaran mobil itu bewarna gelap, coretannya terlihat terang. Apa lagi kanak-kanak ini juga bikin coretan sesuai dengan kreativitasnya.

Hari itu ayah serta ibunya mengendarai motor ke tempat kerja lantaran jalan macet. Sesudah sang anak mencoret penuh sisi yang samping kanan dia berpindah ke samping kiri mobil. Dibuatnya gambar ibu dan ayahnya, gambarnya sendiri, lukisan ayam, kucing dan lain sebagainya mengikuti imaginasinya. Peristiwa itu berjalan tanpa disadari si pembantu rumah.

Pulang petang itu, terkejutlah bapak ibunya lihat mobil yang baru satu tahun dibeli dengan cicilan. Si ayah yang belum lagi masuk ke rumah ini juga selalu menjerit, 'Kerjaan siapa ini? ' Pembantu rumah yang tersentak dengan jeritan itu lari keluar. Dia juga beristighfar. Mukanya merah padam ketakutan lebih-lebih lihat muka bengis tuannya.

Sekali lagi diajukan pertanyaan keras padanya, dia terus mengatakan ‘Tak tahu…! ' 'Kamu di rumah selama seharian, apa sajakah yg kau kerjakan? ' hardik si isteri lagi. Si anak yang mendengar nada ayahnya, mendadak lari keluar dari kamarnya. Dengan penuh manja dia berkata 'Ita yg bikin itu papa…. cantik kan! ' tuturnya sembari memeluk papanya menginginkan bermanja seperti biasa. Si ayah yang hilang kesabaran mengambil sebatang ranting kecil dari pohon bunga raya di depannya, terus dipukulkannya berkali-kali ke telapak tangan anaknya.

Si anak yang tidak tahu apa-apa terlolong-lolong kesakitan sekaligus ketakutan. Puas memukul telapak tangan, si ayah memukul pula belakang tangan anaknya. Si ibu hanya mendiamkan saja, seakan merestui dan merasa puas dengan hukuman yang digunakan. Pembantu rumah terbengong, tidak tahu harus berbuat apa? Si ayah cukup keras memukul-mukul tangan kanan serta lalu tangan kiri anaknya.

Setelah si ayah masuk ke tempat tinggal dituruti si ibu, pembantu rumah menggendong anak kecil itu, membawanya ke kamar. Dilihatnya telapak tangan serta belakang tangan si anak kecil luka-luka dan berdarah. Pembantu rumah memandikan anak kecil itu. Sembari menyiram air sembari dia ikut menangis. Anak kecil itu juga terjerit-jerit menahan kepedihan waktu luka-lukanya itu terkena air. Si pembantu rumah kemudian menidurkan anak kecil itu. Si ayah sengaja membiarkan anak itu tidur bersama pembantu rumah.

Keesokkan harinya, ke dua belah tangan si anak bengkak. Pembantu rumah mengadu. 'Oleskan obat saja! ' jawab tuannya, ayah si anak. Pulang dari kerja, dia tidak memperhatikan anak kecil itu yang menghabiskan waktu di kamar pembantu. Si ayah konon ingin hukum anaknya. Tiga hari berlalu, si ayah tidak pernah menjenguk anaknya sementara si ibu juga demikian tetapi setiap hari bertanya kepada pembantu rumah. 'Ita demam…' jawab pembantunya ringkas.iya bu.

'Kasih minum obat penurun panas, ' jawab si ibu.

Sebelum si ibu masuk kamar tidur dia menjenguk kamar pembantunya. Saat dilihat anaknya Ita dalam pelukan pembantu rumah, dia menutup lagi pintu kamar pembantunya. Masuk hari ke empat, pembantu rumah memberitahukan tuannya kalau suhu tubuh Ita sangat panas. 'Sore nanti kita bawa ke klinik' kata majikannya itu. Hingga waktunya si anak yang sudah lemah dibawa ke klinik. Dokter mengarahkan ia dirujuk ke rumah sakit lantaran kondisinya serius. Setelah seminggu di rawat inap dokter memanggil ayah dan ibu anak itu.

'Tidak ada pilihan.. ' tuturnya yang mengusulkan supaya ke dua tangan anak itu diamputasi lantaran gangren yang terjadi sudah terlalu parah.

'Tangannya telah bernanah, untuk menyelamatkan nyawanya ke dua tangannya perlu dipotong dari siku ke bawah' kata dokter.

Si ayah dan ibu bagaikan terkena halilintar mendengar kalimat itu. Merasa dunia berhenti berputar, namun apa yang bisa dikatakan. Si ibu meraung merangkul si anak. Dengan berat hati dan lelehan air mata isterinya, si ayah terketar-ketar menandatangani surat kesepakatan pembedahan.

Keluar dari bilik pembedahan, selepas obat bius yang disuntikkan habis, si anak menangis kesakitan. Dia juga heran lihat ke dua tangannya berbalut kasa putih. Ditatapnya muka ayah dan ibunya. Lalu ke muka pembantu rumah. Dia mengerutkan dahi lihat mereka semua menangis. Dalam siksaan menahan sakit, si anak bersuara dalam linangan air mata.

'Papa.. Mama… Ita tidak akan melakukannya lagi. Ita tidak ingin dipukul papa. Ita tidak ingin jahat. Ita sayang papa.. sayang mama. ' tuturnya berulang kali membuatkan si ibu gagal menahan rasa sedihnya.

'Ita juga sayang Kak Narti.. ' katanya memandang muka pembantu rumah, sekaligus membuatkan gadis itu meraung histeris.

'Papa.. kembalikan tangan Ita. Untuk apa di ambil.. Ita janji tidak akan mengulanginya lagi! Bagaimana caranya Ita mau makan nanti? Bagaimana Ita ingin bermain nanti? Ita janji tdk akan mencoret-coret mobil lagi, ' tuturnya berkali-kali.

Terasanya copot jantung si ibu mendengar kalimat anaknya. Meraung-raung dia sekuat hati namun takdir yang sudah terjadi, tidak ada manusia dapat menahannya.

hemmmmmmmm.....

Pelajaran yang sangat berharga buat para orang-tua, anak nakal itu biasa, kalau anak kecil terluka, berilah perhatian sendiri pada anak dan jangan bergantung pada pembantu yang pendidikannya lebih terbatas.

Ingat.. Penyesalan selalu datang BELAKANGAN..

Semoga kita semuanya bisa jadi orang-tua yang paling baik ntuk anak-anak kita.

Aamiin...

SILAHKAN SHRARE AGAR JADI PELAJARAN DAN PERINGATAN UNTUK KELUARGA YG LAIN!!

sumber : tausiah-subuh

IKLAN DI BAWAH ARTIKEL (INARTICLE ADS)

10 Easy Steps to Succeed in Your Online Classes

Congratulations Youve made up our minds to pursue your upper schooling, and doing so online is how to pass if you have an interest in a versatile, studentcentered educating manner. Studying online permits you to pursue different pursuits and attend to different responsibilities whilst nonetheless operating your method towards some extent. However, it will now and again imply that its clean to get distracted. Here are 10 clean steps to verify luck on your online categories.

Connect together with your instructors once conceivable. Even in case you are doing smartly within the category, its extraordinarily vital to increase a rapport together with your trainer. When you do that early on, you temporarily understand what the priorities are within the route, what expectancies the professor has of you and youre going to be motivated to prevail, surer of whats forward and higher ready to do smartly with the impending subject material.

Valuable questions to invite your trainer come with the next

How versatile are you with time limits How versatile are you with grownup freshmen What applied sciences do you employ within the route How to be had are you through e mail and different sorts of verbal exchange How do you put up an internet neighborhood and what are the expectancies for participation in it In addition, since instructors are to be had to lend a hand all over the classes, its all the time just right to have had private touch with the trainer early on. This method, when you wish to have lend a hand, its more straightforward to achieve out and get the help you wish to have.

Confirm the technical necessities of the route. Online categories can also be very advisable for college kids with busy schedules, however provided that they are able to simply get right of entry to the fabrics. It is vital to obviously perceive what the technical necessities are. So, ahead of the route begins or as quickly thereafter as conceivable, youll want to test that your pc will paintings with the entire online equipment, and that you understand how to navigate them. This will be sure that you dont must spend time all the way through the route attempting to determine the generation.

three. Create a time table and stick with it. Quality online instructors create classes which might be clean to navigate and feature transparent expectancies. Having that roughly easytodealwith framework in position will make learning and succeeding that a lot more straightforward. However, although the framework and necessities of your category arent as transparent, youll create a time table and construction, which is able to very much fortify your probabilities of luck within the route. Using equipment equivalent to Google Calendar is a good way to start out. Knowing how your weeks and months glance and scheduling blocks of analysis time for each and every activity or module will will let you stick with a time table.

four. Ask questionsall the time. When you dont perceive, ask questions. When you do perceive, ask additional questions. Instructors recognize scholars who take part, and if theres a participation or dialogue part a part of the grade, then asking high quality questions is helping guarantee your grade on this space. Even if there isnt a participation part, its all the time helpful to invite inquiries to remember to perceive the fabric and are transparent on what is needed of you.

five. Be arrangedand keep arranged. Students whore taking conventional, campusbased classes most often have a constant time table to observe each and every week, through which study room instruction is adopted through assignments out of doors the category. However, for online classes, scholars will have to search out their very own techniques to stick on most sensible in their paintings. It is crucial that you just be arranged from the start of the semester with the intention to achieve success in an internet route. For instance mark task due dates on your calendar, discover a submitting machine for each online subject material and bodily subject material that is helping you stay monitor of the whole lot simply, and shed light on find out about schedules that duvet sections of the route one by one so youve got an arranged tactic to protecting the semesters subject material as you pass alongside.

Have a blank, quiet, and constant workspace. One factor online and inclass classes have in not unusual is that scholars all the time want a spot to review or whole assignments this is blank, quiet, and constant. You can select the place that is for youwhether or not its at a espresso store, a college library, a devoted place of business, or at house. Wherever you select to review and whole assignments, you must make it a constant location that doesnt have out of doors distractions. It is basically key that where is quiet and lets you focal point in your paintings with out distractions.
Do no longer procrastinate. Successful distance freshmen hardly procrastinate. They dont do away with assignments or wait till the final second to write down their papers. Successful online scholars experience freedoms that come with operating at their very own tempo and the facility to finish their paintings in as a lot time because it takes them. On the opposite hand, they know that finishing their assignments is best performed early and on time cramming merely doesnt paintings, and it doesnt will let you retain knowledge longterm. Get began early on getting a success.

eight. Work in your studying comprehension. Successful distance freshmen generally tend to have just right studying comprehension abilities. Most conventional, campusbased scholars concentrate to lectures and take notes, and a few online classes additionally require this. However, the vast majority of distance freshmen are anticipated to grasp subject material thru a large amount of studying. Although far finding out classes be offering video recordings and audio clips, maximum systems require scholars to hide and grasp a considerable amount of written knowledge. If it is a problem for you, it could be very useful to first sign up in a studying comprehension route there are lots of assets online that will help you do that. This ability by myself could make a huge distinction on your luck.

nine. Establish and admire routines that be just right for you. If, for instance, youre employed best within the morning or in brief bursts, then set find out about routines that can help you find out about within the prelunch hours when your mind is contemporary. If, then again, you do best through learning at evening or at the weekends when youll devote nightowl hours or longer blocks in your learning, then make it some degree to take action. Consider how and whilst you paintings best, and enforce a find out about plan that respects the routines that be just right for you.

Connect together with your friends. Establishing sturdy connections with friends and professors is a very powerful facet of tutorial luck, in addition to skilled development. One of essentially the most rewarding reports in schooling is finding out thru collaboration. Forming significant relationships together with your friends and professors can can help you be told extra, keep motivated, and feature an outlet to specific your personal working out of subject material. So, keep attached thru message forums, chat rooms, e mail, and different digital assets. And take note lots of the other people you meet in faculty shall be conceivable process assets down the road so determine connections and keep in contact

Florida National University gives a wealth of tutorial and professional online classes. Check out the entire choicesyour long run is ready