Gak Bisa Beliin "Kosmetik dan Baju Bermerek", Pria Ini "Dicampakkan" Istrinya,Bahkan Dia Mengatakan "Kenyataan" Tentang Keluarganya, Istrinya Nyesel Setengah Mati!!

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Beberapa hari lalu gue diputusin sama cewek yang udah jalan selama 3 bulan sama gue, alesannya cuman karna gue cuman punya motor tua dan tinggal di kosan butut.
Dia bilang, "Pacar temen-temen aku semuanya punya rumah sendiri dan mobil sendiri, kok kamu kayak gini, gak punya uang, gak punya rumah, bahkan cuman punya motor tua yang udah jelek kayak gitu, kalau papa mama aku tahu, aku juga ga tau mau ngomong apa sama mereka." Sambil ngomong gini, mata dia yang cantik sebenernya nunjukkin kalo dia nggak suka sama keadaan gua sekarang.


Dari kenal dia sampe akhirnya jadian selama 3 bulan ini, kita sering banget keluar bareng, tapi dia kayaknya memang nggak terlalu cinta juga sama gua, sikapnya sering dingin, tapi kadang yah perhatian juga, kadang gua malah ngerasa dia beneran nggak puas banget sama kondisi ekonomi gua, kayaknya gua tuh nggak bisa muasin dia dalam hal financial.

Akhirnya dia bilang dia mau putus sama gua, awalnya gua masih pengen balikan, tapi karena dia kayaknya yakin banget, yaudah gua setuju, akhirnya kita bilang kita mau putus baik-baik dan mau pergi kencan terakhir kalinya sebelum putus. Hari itu gua nyetir mobil, bukan motor butut yang biasanya gua pake.

Dia tanya, "Ini mobil siapa?"
Gua jawab, "Ya mobil aku."
Dia langsung kaget, "Mana mungkin?! Lu yang miskin begini mana sanggup beli mobil maha kayak gini?!"

Tapi dia tetep masuk mobil dan akhirnya gua bawa dia ke satu tempat, selama perjalanan gua nggak ngomong apa-apa sama dia. Gua bawa dia ke sebuah rumah berlantai tiga dengan basement khusus buat mobil pribadi dan g suruh dia turun.

Gua bilang, "Ini tempat aku tinggal dulu sebelum kenal kamu. Setelah aku kenal kamu, aku memang udah lama nggak pulang kesini." Setelah itu pembantu di rumah gua langsung datang bukain pintu rumah. Waktu gua ajak masuk, gua inget jelas muka dia yang cengo dan setengah gak percaya sama apa yang dia liat.

Gua minta dia duduk di ruang keluarga dan minta pembantu g untuk bikinin dia minuman. Waktu itulah gua ngomong sama dia, "Aku bilang sama kamu aku kerja di perusahaan, itu bener kok, tapi itu perusahaan punya keluargaku, sekarang aku sudah memimpin salah satu anak perusahaannya. Ayahku juga merupakan direktur dari perusahaan besar ini. Ya kamu mau putus sama aku, mungkin memang aku gak cocok sama kamu, kamu juga gak cocok sama aku. Aku sebelumnya nggak mau papa jodohin sama anak orang kaya, aku pengen cari sendiri pasangan yang baik dan nggak perduli sama semua kekayaan yang aku punya. Aku mau cari pasangan yang mencintai aku dan bukan uangku. Tapi selama 3 bulan ini, sayangnya kamu mungkin bukan cewek yang aku cari."

Sambil minum, gua ngelanjutin lagi, "Tempat kos aku sekarang itu juga memang  punya papa mama, waktu aku kenal kamu waktu itu, aku putusin buat tinggal di sana dan mengenal kamu lebih dulu. Kalau aku sudah cukup kenal siapa kamu, aku mau bawa kamu pulang kesini buat ketemu papa dan mama."

Gua ngeliat mukanya udah semakin nggak bisa dikontrol, dia bahkan sama sekali nggak ngomong apa-apa. Tapi udah keliatan kalo dia nggak tau harus gimana. Makannya gua mulai ngomong lagi.

"Selama bareng kamu, aku memang sengaja pura-pura miskin, aku bilang kalau gajiku sebulan bahkan gak sampe 1 juta, jadi aku gak bisa beliin kosmetik atau baju mahal yang kamu mau beli, aku juga ga bisa ajak kamu makan ke restoran mewah yang selalu kamu pengen itu.

Sebenernya aku mampu dan aku mau dan rela kasih itu semua ke orang yang aku bener sayang, tapi kamu bikin aku nggak mau kasih itu semua. Karena buat kamu, uang dan kekayaan itu adalah segalanya, buat kamu uang lebih penting daripada perasaan kamu sama aku. Kamu sering banget bilang sama aku kalau temen-temen kamu dapet hadiah tas bermerek atau baju baru dari pacarnya. Kamu memang tau aku nggak punya uang, jadi kamu juga malu kenalin aku ke temen-temen kamu kan.. Sama aja sama motor butut yang selalu kamu hina-hina itu."

Setelah semuanya itu, dia nggak mengatakan sepatah katapun, gua akhirnya tanya dia mau makan apa, dia bilang dia mau makan steak. Gua bawa dia ke restoran tempat pertama kali kita kencan.

Waktu makan dia bilang apa dia bisa balikan lagi sama gua? Gua nggak jawab apa-apa, gua cuman bilang setelah makan nanti gua anter dia ke rumahnya.

Selama makan dia terus-terusan berusaha buat ngejelasin banyak hal, tapi gua udah nggak kepengen juga buat tau lebih banyak. Setelah itu, gua anter dia ke rumahnya dan ngucapin selamat tinggal.

Dari situ gua semakin tau kalo hubungan itu nggak dibangun di atas dasar uang dan kekayaan! Walaupun sampai akhir dia cuman karena uang sampe pengen balikan lagi, ini semakin ngebuktiin kalo dia memang matre dan cuman demen sama duit, bukan sama gua.



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10 Easy Steps to Succeed in Your Online Classes

Congratulations Youve made up our minds to pursue your upper schooling, and doing so online is how to pass if you have an interest in a versatile, studentcentered educating manner. Studying online permits you to pursue different pursuits and attend to different responsibilities whilst nonetheless operating your method towards some extent. However, it will now and again imply that its clean to get distracted. Here are 10 clean steps to verify luck on your online categories.

  1. Connect together with your instructors once conceivable. Even in case you are doing smartly within the category, its extraordinarily vital to increase a rapport together with your trainer. When you do that early on, you temporarily understand what the priorities are within the route, what expectancies the professor has of you and youre going to be motivated to prevail, surer of whats forward and higher ready to do smartly with the impending subject material.

Valuable questions to invite your trainer come with the next

How versatile are you with time limits How versatile are you with grownup freshmen What applied sciences do you employ within the route How to be had are you through e mail and different sorts of verbal exchange How do you put up an internet neighborhood and what are the expectancies for participation in it In addition, since instructors are to be had to lend a hand all over the classes, its all the time just right to have had private touch with the trainer early on. This method, when you wish to have lend a hand, its more straightforward to achieve out and get the help you wish to have.

  1. Confirm the technical necessities of the route. Online categories can also be very advisable for college kids with busy schedules, however provided that they are able to simply get right of entry to the fabrics. It is vital to obviously perceive what the technical necessities are. So, ahead of the route begins or as quickly thereafter as conceivable, youll want to test that your pc will paintings with the entire online equipment, and that you understand how to navigate them. This will be sure that you dont must spend time all the way through the route attempting to determine the generation.

three. Create a time table and stick with it. Quality online instructors create classes which might be clean to navigate and feature transparent expectancies. Having that roughly easytodealwith framework in position will make learning and succeeding that a lot more straightforward. However, although the framework and necessities of your category arent as transparent, youll create a time table and construction, which is able to very much fortify your probabilities of luck within the route. Using equipment equivalent to Google Calendar is a good way to start out. Knowing how your weeks and months glance and scheduling blocks of analysis time for each and every activity or module will will let you stick with a time table.

four. Ask questionsall the time. When you dont perceive, ask questions. When you do perceive, ask additional questions. Instructors recognize scholars who take part, and if theres a participation or dialogue part a part of the grade, then asking high quality questions is helping guarantee your grade on this space. Even if there isnt a participation part, its all the time helpful to invite inquiries to remember to perceive the fabric and are transparent on what is needed of you.

five. Be arrangedand keep arranged. Students whore taking conventional, campusbased classes most often have a constant time table to observe each and every week, through which study room instruction is adopted through assignments out of doors the category. However, for online classes, scholars will have to search out their very own techniques to stick on most sensible in their paintings. It is crucial that you just be arranged from the start of the semester with the intention to achieve success in an internet route. For instance mark task due dates on your calendar, discover a submitting machine for each online subject material and bodily subject material that is helping you stay monitor of the whole lot simply, and shed light on find out about schedules that duvet sections of the route one by one so youve got an arranged tactic to protecting the semesters subject material as you pass alongside.

  1. Have a blank, quiet, and constant workspace. One factor online and inclass classes have in not unusual is that scholars all the time want a spot to review or whole assignments this is blank, quiet, and constant. You can select the place that is for youwhether or not its at a espresso store, a college library, a devoted place of business, or at house. Wherever you select to review and whole assignments, you must make it a constant location that doesnt have out of doors distractions. It is basically key that where is quiet and lets you focal point in your paintings with out distractions.
  2. Do no longer procrastinate. Successful distance freshmen hardly procrastinate. They dont do away with assignments or wait till the final second to write down their papers. Successful online scholars experience freedoms that come with operating at their very own tempo and the facility to finish their paintings in as a lot time because it takes them. On the opposite hand, they know that finishing their assignments is best performed early and on time cramming merely doesnt paintings, and it doesnt will let you retain knowledge longterm. Get began early on getting a success.

eight. Work in your studying comprehension. Successful distance freshmen generally tend to have just right studying comprehension abilities. Most conventional, campusbased scholars concentrate to lectures and take notes, and a few online classes additionally require this. However, the vast majority of distance freshmen are anticipated to grasp subject material thru a large amount of studying. Although far finding out classes be offering video recordings and audio clips, maximum systems require scholars to hide and grasp a considerable amount of written knowledge. If it is a problem for you, it could be very useful to first sign up in a studying comprehension route there are lots of assets online that will help you do that. This ability by myself could make a huge distinction on your luck.

nine. Establish and admire routines that be just right for you. If, for instance, youre employed best within the morning or in brief bursts, then set find out about routines that can help you find out about within the prelunch hours when your mind is contemporary. If, then again, you do best through learning at evening or at the weekends when youll devote nightowl hours or longer blocks in your learning, then make it some degree to take action. Consider how and whilst you paintings best, and enforce a find out about plan that respects the routines that be just right for you.

  1. Connect together with your friends. Establishing sturdy connections with friends and professors is a very powerful facet of tutorial luck, in addition to skilled development. One of essentially the most rewarding reports in schooling is finding out thru collaboration. Forming significant relationships together with your friends and professors can can help you be told extra, keep motivated, and feature an outlet to specific your personal working out of subject material. So, keep attached thru message forums, chat rooms, e mail, and different digital assets. And take note lots of the other people you meet in faculty shall be conceivable process assets down the road so determine connections and keep in contact

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